Navigating identities: between belonging and understanding

This study explores the concept of self-illusion among first-generation Iraqi Kurds in Southeast England, focusing on tensions between self-perception and externally imposed social categories and their impact on identity and belonging. Narrative interviews documented participants' lived experiences, which were analysed using thematic analysis across cognitive, social, and cultural domains. Findings suggest that self-illusion functions as a cognitive and experiential mechanism that helps individuals reconcile conflicting beliefs, expectations, and values. Furthermore, discrepancies between self-proclaimed and imposed identities lead to strategies such as reframing, negotiation, and acceptance, supporting continuity, relational coherence, and the formation of adaptive, context-sensitive identities.